Thursday, 31 May 2012

7 ways friends because of Allah

Assalamualaikum ,has anyone asked why I'm updating my blog everyday ?Or ,has anyone asked why I'm writing in english lately ?

Aha ,actually I'm counting the time to fly .Yeah for my study .And ,I'm writing in english because I just want to improve my bad english .So ,sorry for my bad english .

So ,tonight I'm gonna share something about friendship .Yes ,ukhwah fillah .There is also a tips to friends because of Allah .We should not "Friends because of Allah" just only verbal .So ,these things must be practiced .InsyaAllah ,we practiced these together gether :)


As we know ,as we can see ,friends when we are happy and laugh are easy to find .But ,how many of them who are willing to accompany and help us face hardship and problem ???Definitely not many ,right ?Frankly speaking ,it's not easy to find a true friends .

Allah s.w.t. said in surah al-Zukhruf verse 67 , "On that day, some close friends to be an enemy to some othersexcept those who are in friendship on the basis of taqwa (iman and soleh)"

So ,here are the tips as our guideline for us to practiced in friendship 

Tell them that we love and like them
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"If we loves someone ,shall we would to tell them ."(HR Abu Daud)
If fall in love ,I mean fall in love with opposite sex ,then it will be different situation .

When parted with friends ,then we should pray for them without them knowing it 
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"Every muslim that pray for another muslim without them knowing ,surely malaikat will pray with the words ,hopefully you too ."(HR Muslim)

Always pleasant when meeting a friends
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"Do not underestimate the good thing, even 
meeting your friend, in a cheerful face ."(HR Muslim)

Immediately shaking hands when meeting
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"Every Muslim who meeting and shaking hands ,will be forgiven before parting ."(HR Abu Daud)

Always visits our friends
Rasulullah s.a.w. said  ,"You must visit once in a whileit will increase love amongst you ."(HR Muslim)

Give a gift
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"Should you gives a gift ,then you will love each other ."
(HR Thabrani)

Helps friends are in need
Rasulullah s.a.w. said ,"Who walks to meet friends for granted their wish is better than meditate(iktikaf) two months ."(HR Hakim)

Therefore, we ourselves should be a good companion to our friendsand hope they are really honest and sincere to make friends with us.

Sincerely ,
Nur Jannah

p/s :Sahabat yang baik adalah sahabat yang berani membetulkan kita ketika kita berbuat kesalahan sehingga kita tidak hanyut di dalam kesalahan dan dosa.


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